History of my boyfriends

Name: Saul
Age: 17
When together: 7/96-8/96
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 1 month
Reason for getting together: Kinda pitied into it. He made me feel bad for his bad summer and we had a little in common. He was my first boyfriend

Reason for breaking up: Realize that we had little in common, and that I needed to find someone closer to my age.

Status now:Have not heard from him since we broke up, have seen him at local clubs once or twice.


Name: Peter
Age: 19
When together: 8/96-10/96
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 2 months
Reason for getting together: Met him through a personals ad, we hit it off, and were able to talk and hang out.

Reason for breaking up: Problems arose with both of us not being able to take charge when making decisions. Resulted in us fighting, more and more, finally we agreed on a mutual breakup.

Status now: Saw him once 1 year ago, at a local pride event.


Name: Clay
Age: 18
When together: 11/96-12/96
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 1 month
Reason for getting together: Met him online, met him in person, and thought that he was a great guy.

Reason for breaking up: Found out he was just out of a 2 year relationship, and that I was his rebound guy, and that he wanted to go back to his ex.

Sidenote: To anyone seeing this, and sorry Clay, but I don't know what I was thinking. Looking back now, this boy is not even my type.

Status now: Talk to him off and on, but nothing major.



Name: William
Age: 19
When together: 1/97-3/97
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 2 months
Reason for getting together: Was depressed after breaking up with Clay and my "friend" John set us up my first time at Bo's. I thought he was a nice guy and really cute.

Reason for breaking up: Realized that personalities clashed and that I needed more affection and loving then he was able to give.

Status now: Talk to off and on. It's cool, we're friends kinda...again.

Sidenote: William if you read this, contact me I haven't heard from you in a while and lost your phone #, would like to go out to coffee sometime. Oh and btw, this is a bad pic of him, he is much cuter in person. =)




Name: Matt
Age: 19
When together: 3/97-5/98
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 10 months (hehe, you know you want to hear the story
Period: 3/97-5/97 Together for 1 1/2 months
Reason for getting together: Felt that he could give me what William had lacked, he showed me a lot of loving and caring in the beginning.

Reason for breaking up: He was unsure about the relationship, and thought it was moving too fast.

Period: 4/98-5/98 Together for 1 month

Reason for getting together: Stupidity.

Reason for breaking up: We fought more, and had a big fight and he moved out.

Status now: We were kinda friends, but then he just up and shut off his pager, and I have no real way to communicate with him.

Name: John
Age: 18
When together: 3/98-4/98
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 1 month
Reason for getting together: I was freshly broken up from Matt and was ready to move on. He was cute, and I thought that his past habits would change. He told me they would and I believed.

Reason for breaking up: Pressure from his friends, and my realization that he was far too immature.

Status now: Talk occasionally, not that often.

Sidenote: Don't....just...don't, even talk to him or anything. He's totally socially inept. If you need anything more than a fuck, he won't be good for it. Because of his deafness he has the social skills and general common sense of a 12 year old if that.



Name: Chris
Age: 20
When together: 9/98-11/98
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 2 months
Reason for getting together: Met him online, chance encounter. He was moving to California from Colorado, and one night happened into the Sacramento room. We talked and talked and talked and ended up talking for 3 weeks, 5 hours a day (I know, I know, big phone bill).

Reason for breaking up: He ended up screwing me over pretty much....cheated on me and made me feel like shit and left me in the lurch with a big ass phone bill. If you see him, beat the shit out of him for me.....=)*
UPDATE: I have been contacted recently by Chris and he appears to have grown up quite a bit, it turns out that he didn't cheat on me. It also turns out that he appears to be a good deal more mature and definitely more like the person that I thought I had met to begin with through AOL. Who knows we may keep in touch, but ya never know, those ex-friendship things are weird. I've also updated his picture per his request although I think that both of the pics he sent me look familiar.

Status now: dead? (not dead just far removed and reasonably well, elsewhere)




Name: Ben
Age: 21
When together: 3/4/99-3/21/99
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: almost 3 weeks
Reason for getting together: I met him at The nature company by chance when going to visit a friend. I didn't think anything of it, and happened across him on the internet, thought it was quite a coincidence. We went out on a date and hit it off and really liked spending time together.

Reason for breaking up: He emailed me of all fuckin things to do. How jacked up is that? And he hasn't spoken to me since, either in person or on the phone or even in an email. His claim was that he "wasn't ready for a relationship", which is a BS answer. I have sources that say that he was feeling like we were spending too much time together. Of course, he never mentioned this to me in anyways, making sure to follow by the rule that communication is very important....(sarcasm) It sucks, I'm upset at him for being an ass, upset that I'm single again, and upset that I can't stop thinking about the fun times that we had together and how he threw all of that away cuz it didn't mean anything to him. Well, just another bit of baggage to throw on the cart. So, now I'm wishin and praying and hoping that somewhere there is someone worth getting to know.

Status now: He cut off all communication


Name: Jason
Age: 21
When together: 4/16/99-8/17/04
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 4 years, 4 months, 1 day
Reason for getting together: I happened across him on the internet, through a personal ad. We talked on and off, I thought he was a smartass, but thought it was cool that he kept calling all the time. We both went through asshole bf's and finally decided to meet and hang out. We really hit it off, in a big way and I've been with him ever since. Seeing each other every chance we get, even though his aunt tried to break us up. He's gone off to Arizona now, but we still want to keep things going, I hope they do because he's a really great guy.

UPDATE: Jason and I are still together (6/03) we just celebrated our 4th anniversary and Jason's 21st bday finally!!! We have already been domestically partnered and hope to seal the whole deal by getting some more substantial rings with actual diamonds. We'll keep everyone updated as to when and if we decide to finally have a commitment ceremony.

UPDATE-2: Jason and I have broken up. It was mutual, we just realized that we are too different. Just in two different places and that we've become more friends than bf's over the past 1 or 2 years. Now I just hope that he has the best of luck with his life I'm hoping that we can keep in touch and remain good friends. I love him and care about him and hope that everything goes good for him, both personally and professionally.

Reason for breaking up: In Different Places

Status now: Friends


Name: Chris
Age: 18
When together: 5/14/05-7/29/05
Boyfriend?: Yes
How long together: 2 months, 2 weeks, 1 day
Reason for getting together: We started out as friends, for 2 years. I honestly never thought it'd be anything more than that, for obvious reasons (him being underage at the time). But then the more we hung out recently, the more things seemed to click. We moved on to the more boyfriend activities, cuddling and whatnot, and everything was amazing.

Reason for breaking up: He fell out of love, if he ever really was in love. I'm slowly getting over him, but it's a process. I still care very much for him and hope to keep in contact and remain friends, and hopefully move beyond this. I still want to see him get everything that he deserves in life, including realizing his dreams.

UPDATE: Yeah, basically I found out that he'd been doubting the relationship ever since this one guy tried to break us up. He left and when he came back, he said he wanted to be friends and promised he'd never be anything more than friends with that guy (turns out they'd reacquainted), and now they're dating. I've basically written him off. I still wish him well, but hope one day he understands how prickish he's come off. And I hope that the guy that tried to break us up and apparently succeeded dumps his ass, moves on and eventually gets what karma needs to deal him.

Status now: Nothing



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